The Proverbs 31 Woman

I have always been intrigued by the proverbs 31 woman.

I haven’t shared much about my faith here on the blog. I’m not sure why. I think it is because I have been in a quieter phase of my faith. Crazy, huh?… Me, quiet?

I love hearing people’s God stories of how He draws them into a personal relationship with Him.ย One of my favorite chapters in the Bible is Proverbs 31:10-31.

The Proverbs 31 Woman | I have always been intrigued by the proverbs 31 woman.

I just LOVE this woman. When my kids were babies, I cross stitched this chapter which now hangs above my bathtub. I see it every night.

She fears the Lord. She is nurturing. She is respected. She is resourceful. She is industrious. She is a business woman.

She is not limited.

The Proverbs 31 Woman | I have always been intrigued by the proverbs 31 woman.

Whenever I read the verse “like a ship she brings food from afar,” I think of me driving to the store in my minivan. For a few years there, I was driving to MANY stores that were far away to provide the food that was best for my kids while their guts healed.

As I have aged, I have added skills to my resume. For a while, I felt like I had too many skills. It seems weird to type that, but it’s true. If you work hard and master one skill, you can then add on and master another.

I used to say I was a “jack of all trades,” which implied I was a master of none. But that’s not true. I’m a Proverbs 31 woman. God has uniquely designed me to help other women find their brand, help them build a blog, help them get organized, be encouraged, learn how to break down organizing by writing manageable blog posts… to help them move on to what they particularly are gifted at.

If you struggle with balancing… work & school, home & work, homeschooling & volunteering, housework & parenting, building a business & staying relevant in your family… I think that’s normal. We are wired to do many things and do them well, just not all at the same time.

The Proverbs 31 Woman | I have always been intrigued by the proverbs 31 woman.

I try to make schedules and evenly divide my time. That never works. I like to dive deep into ONE project and get a lot accomplished, and then move on to the next one.

So, I guess I’ve decided to just focus on what I am doing AT THIS MINUTE and do that to excellence and then move on to the next duty, task, or project. It’s a work in progress.

Honestly, the last month I have been having a short prayer time in the morning. After I read a chapter of the Bible, I think about my day and what I have going on. Then I ask God two questions:

1. Is there anything on this list you don’t want me to do?

2. Is there anything you want me to add to this list?

I just sit still for about 30 seconds and listen.

For me, “hearing from God” is like a thought that comes out of the blue or maybe what you’d call your conscience.

I have been less stressed, more peaceful and more prosperous since I started this and I am still doing a whole crazy list of things.

The Proverbs 31 Woman | I have always been intrigued by the proverbs 31 woman.

Well, I have to run and go get some of that food from afar…


  1. Lisa says

    I love the cross stich but that is way beyond my time and ability. Is there anyway you could post a scanned picture of it? I would love to print it out and put it in my planner just to remind me that I need to slow down even if I am that woman!

    • says

      Hey Lisa – It’s too big to scan. ๐Ÿ™‚ I made it back in my pre-kiddo days when I had time to breathe! You can Google Proverbs 31 and then click images to find images you might like to print at any size. ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. Stacey says

    Thank you for sharing your faith. I am an extremely busy woman. I’m a teacher of about 150-160 a year. I’m a list maker too. A few years ago I remember God softly gettingy attention to telle He wanted to be in control of all my life. He said that meanty to do list too. I’ve not been as obedient as I should. Thank you for the reminder.

  3. Nancy says

    Thank you Lisa; I loved this post! I especially liked the way you pray over your to do list each morning. I started doing that today. Just knowing God was in the process made a difference. I didn’t get so worked up over changes in plans- and there are always changes in the plan as the day unfolds. Blessings on your family life and challenges.

  4. Barb says

    I’ve made a recent discovery. I know you all have seen the “coloring book” craze. Well, I got my first book…and was delighted to see that on Amazon, there are a number of Christians one. I got the one called~ “Be Still and know that I’m God”

    But in the process, I stumbled upon another book called PRAYING IN COLOR. Oh my, what a cool way to pray. I’m still finding my way, but it is true, that when you do a prayer page in coloring, you do remember better what you have prayed for. Apparently over 60,000 copies of the book has been sold, so others of you may have come up with a similar plan.

    • says

      Very cool! I was just talking with a client yesterday who enjoyed counted cross stich like I do. {Or did before kids!} And I mentioned that I would do cross stich during my college classes and remember the lecture based on the price I was working on!

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