This weekโs podcast is about the times when you find yourself in a tough phase of life. Itโs about the times when you have no time to get organized no matter how much you want to.
It may be that youโre SO busy you struggle to find even 15 minutes a day to get your home organized.
Or you have the time, but what you want/need to do requires money and you donโt have a spare $15 right now.
It may be both, you donโt have a spare 15 minutes AND a spare $15!
Theyโre not phases that we want to find ourselves in, but they can happen to us all and probably will at least once in our lives.
I can easily draw upon my own experience with this topic. Iโd LOVE to say that I was stuck in this phase of life for a week or a month, but it was more like 6 years!
In the episode, I touch on how to get organized if you have a chronic condition (like fibromyalgia or a physical ailment). Iโm afraid I have no magic answer, but my main advice is to get someone to help you, either paid (if you can afford it) or unpaid (friends and family). When you have help in place, you then need to think about how you can incorporate help with home organization as well as physical care. People want to help you, so, broaden your thinking on how you can use that help.
If youโre a parent, a lot can depend upon the age of your children and what I like to call the “stage of parenting” that you find yourself in. I recorded a whole podcast episode on this very topic: #130 – The Three Stages of Parenting.
- Age 0-6 is when youโre doing EVERYTHING for your kids. Youโre at home a lot. It can be exhausting. And thereโs SO much to organize because the rate of change when it comes to clothes, toys, etc. is mind-boggling!
- Age 6-12 is when you do things with your kids. You teach them how to start looking after themselves.
- 13+ is when theyโre becoming a young adult. Then, itโs more about coaching and mentoring.
So what do you do when youโre in the middle of a phase and you donโt have time or money to get your house organized?
My answer is to work on changing your mindset.
A lot goes on in your head before you see it in physical reality. I notice this with my business, my finances, my relationshipsโฆ the world is more mental than it is physical. Positivity feeds and attracts more positivity, and negativity feeds and attracts more negativity.
I reference in the podcast a documentary series on inventions that I watched and loved. If youโd like to check it out, itโs by National Geographic called American Genius.
If youโre in a hard place and you feel stuck in a tough phase of life, this doesnโt mean that you should give up the desire to have an organized home in the future. If you think about having an organized home and you want it enough, you will manifest it.
Having a Sunday Basketโข will help you too. The Sunday Basketโข helps bring order, develops the right skills, and brings about the discipline required for an organized house.
Of course, please continue to listen to my podcast and other podcasts on home organization, too! Continue working on your mindset, even if youโre somewhat limited in the action that you can take right now. You will be amazed at the power of a mindset shift!